Pigeon on a post

This morning, I made these captures of a pigeon resting on top of a fence post in our back yard; pigeons often perch on the post, but they rarely lie down as this one did:

I love the lower picture. I know I took both images, but still, I can pick favourites from my own work, and I like that second one! Both are main camera shots.

Pinkish sunset

I took these pictures of this evening's sunset; they were shot with my main camera through a window:

Unfortunately, the dirt on the window dulls the sunset, which was more impressive when seen through the naked eye.

Thwarted barbecue

Dad was looking forward to this weekend: he was going do his first barbecue for 2013. The weather had been fairly decent all week and the weather was expected to be pleasant for Saturday and Sunday. Today started out a fairly bright warm and day, with minor winds and only a few clouds in the sky...perfect for a barbecue!

By midday, clouds had enveloped the sky, and by the mid-afternoon, it had started to rain. Dad thought he would still be able to perform a barbecue, as the rain wasn't heavy and he has an abundance of tools available to cover objects against rain; however, the winds picked up, leading Dad to make the decision to delay the first barbecue of the year for another day. The chicken, sausages and the salmon (yes, salmon can be barbecued...it's tastier that way!) all had to be cooked in the oven.

It's a shame: Dad was delighted about the prospect of a barbecue, especially after the busy week he's had, and because we'd already had a barbecue by this time in 2012. On the positive side, the rain makes a welcome change from all the snow we've endured.

Missing 30 St Mary Axe and The Shard

In April 2011, my family and I visited the counties of Surrey and Hampshire, the former of which borders London. I then visited London in June 2012, and, as I wrote about recently, I went to London again in March 2013. On only one of those occasions did I spot the iconic and infamous 30 St Mary Axe ("The Gherkin"), and on none did I see The Shard; furthermore, I never saw 30 St Mary Axe on the two times I was in the city: I glimpsed it for about two seconds when we were on the motorway to Surrey.

Why is this notable? Well, because both buildings help define the London skyline: 30 St Mary Axe because of its unique shape and The Shard because it is the tallest building in the United Kingdom and the second-tallest in Europe. Despite their highlights, I missed spotting these two prominent towers...and on my recent visit I was actively looking out for them, too, but my view was obscured by other structures. Seriously, I missed them both!

I am an admirer of both towers; I'll have to have another go at spotting them on my next trip to London!

More bad ways to break up

I have written two posts on douchey ways to end a relationship. Thanks to a segment on the radio today about breaking up, here's my third installment on the subject.

The first way involved someone posting a link to Kelly Clarkson's "Already Gone" on their partner's Facebook profile (I love Kelly Clarkson, but I wouldn't use her to break up with someone). This was a short and deeply unkind split, with unhappy emoticons and unfriending — on and offline — being the consequences. Yes, this is another break up over the Internet, but it's important for reasons that I'll expand upon later.

The second resembled the first in that it used music: it involved a woman singing Taylor Swift's "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" down the phone to her boyfriend, thereby ending their relationship. I have a modicum of respect for the creativity of this one, but it was wrong for two reasons: 1. the breakup wasn't done face-to-face, but if he was a jerk then this is irrelevant. 2. "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" isn't even about breaking up...it's about not wanting to get back together, hence the name! I do understand the message, though.

I will grant the third one the honour of being clever, but it was still douchey. The person told their partner that their exes were beautiful; the bemused partner asked "Which one?", only to be told "Me!". It was done over the telephone.

The consensus on the segment was that the best method to end a relationship was over the Internet, which angered me. What is it with these people who think breaking up with someone over the Internet is acceptable? I hope in every one of these cases the relationship wasn't serious: I think it would be disgusting and cowardly to end a deep relationship in such a manner. In be fair, the people contacting the programme were all young (in their teens), so I'm hoping it was a case of collective youthful ignorance and that they will all mature.

Coincidentally, "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" played at one point while I was writing this.

The dried dirt

I took some pictures of where water had flowed through a field, leaving behind the path on which the liquid had travelled and cracked dirt; here are a couple of those images:

I love the desert-like appearance of the dirt in this photograph; it's a fertile field and the grass isn't far away, yet it resembles barren terrain where a river once meandered.

 

Proof that grass is indeed growing by the field; look at that contrast between the green and the brown!

The accent

I received a powerful compliment this afternoon. I was introduced to a new neighbour; after talking to them for a short time they said the following:

"You have an American accent!"

It was not said with any sort of hostility; rather, it was said with enthusiastic surprise, as the person expected me to speak with a much stronger British accent. I thanked them in a tone that clearly displayed my pleasure at their statement.

I know I do have a British accent, but it's not that strong and, unsurprisingly, I frequently speak in American English and use American terms despite writing in British English. I consider it a compliment when someone notices that my accent is different; I was having a fairly miserable day until that moment.

Margaret Thatcher

I'm going to keep this short, mainly due to the large amount of current coverage about the death of Baroness and former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom Margaret Thatcher — and because I'm not seeking a discussion over her premiership — but I wanted to post an excerpt from President Barack Obama's tribute to Thatcher:

 "As a grocer’s daughter who rose to become Britain’s first female prime minister, she stands as an example to our daughters that there is no glass ceiling that can’t be shattered."

Regardless of one's politics, it cannot be denied that Thatcher's ascension to Prime Minister was an important milestone for women. While no woman has been Prime Minister since Thatcher, the 2010 election delivered a record number of female MPs to Parliament and more women continue to get involved with politics every day; I think it's only a matter of time before we have another woman as head of government.

First times on the Internet

My first use of the Internet was when I was seven years old. With my mother's supervision, I visited a Christmas-themed website to play a few simple games; nothing too intensive. My first time on the Internet unattended was a couple of years later...and I was using it without permission, which, at the time, I had to seek to be able to use it. What did I do? Other than use it without my parents' knowledge, nothing wrong: I wanted to look up my then-favourite computer game, Frogger.

The Internet was much simpler in those days, and I was using dial-up then because that was all we had. I didn't start using high-speed Internet until late 2006; by then, I had long been using the Internet without the need for parental supervision. When I began using the Internet, I never imagined that I'd one day meet people through it or keep a blog: I thought it would only be used for checking news, playing a few games and doing a little shopping.

When did you start using the Internet? Did you ever envision using it the way you do now?

(On another note, sorry for two posts in a row that present you with questions!)

Early songs

Any there any particular songs, or even an individual song, that you associate with your early childhood? The first two songs I can recall hearing are Enya's "Orinoco Flow" ("sail away, sail away, sail away!" and The Buggles' "Video Killed the Radio Star".

Around the time I was born, Dad bought a CD player and two of Enya's CDs; he later bought a Buggles album which contained their aforementioned song. Those albums were played frequently enough for me to recognise both songs, single them out and enjoy them from an early age. Whenever I listen to them now, I am reminded of when I was around 3-4 years of age and had my first taste of music; however, most of the returning memories are of loving those songs when I was that age: I recall little else. Still, it is a wonderful feeling to listen to songs that I associate with being a young child, and it does bring back some of the few memories I have of my pre-United States life.

Can you remember the earliest song(s) you ever heard, or have any songs that remind you of being just a few years old or younger?

On apologising

I read this article on the Daily Mail about a University of Queensland study claiming that refusing to apologise boosts a person's sense of self-worth and feeling of empowerment:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2303344/How-refusing-apologise-make-feel-better-saying-sorry.html

I consider studies like this to be disruptive: society is already rude enough as it is, and giving encouragement to uncivil people will only exacerbate the problem. Granted, it's only a small study (228 people) and it is the Daily Mail that is reporting it, but really, the world doesn't need any more arrogant people!

Fortunately, the majority of commenters on the article have dismissed the study, with the minuscule sample size being the primary reason for its rejection. Multiple people also thought that there are enough rude types around and/or had no interest in being friends or family with someone who has zero regard for the feelings of others; in my own experience, most people I've met would rather apologise for a wrongdoing than ignore what others think to strengthen their own self-importance.

If I make a mistake that requires an apology, I apologise. I don't receive any sort of satisfaction from refusing to give an apology; in fact, I feel awful when I haven't been able to give an apology to somebody when one was clearly required. On the other hand, I don't apologise excessively so that apologising becomes meaningless, but I'd rather have respect for someone else's feelings than be a jerk.

Snow alien

I took this picture of a small patch of snow out on our front lawn; Mum reckoned it looked like a "snow alien" because of the bits of branch positioned in the middle, which give it "eyes":

It also slightly resembles the United States and Canada or a fattened Greenland, too; well, at least it does to me, anyway!

Plants and water

I went down to a pond that I've photographed and written about here (1, 2, 3):

These are some daffodils near the pond. The ongoing cold weather has prevented the vast majority of the flowers from blooming; these daffodils have so far only managed to grow their stems.

The pond itself. The sun went behind some clouds just after I photographed the daffodils, hence why this picture of the pond is darker than the picture of the flowers. This is the cleanest I have ever seen the pond; it's usually covered with algae.

Another view of the pond, taken a little more close up. One of the best parts about the weather improving (albeit slowly) is being able to photograph bright scenery again.

"Angels" - Robbie Williams

British music was something I was looking forward to while my family and I were in the process of moving back to the United Kingdom; I wasn't to be disappointed, as we've heard some great musicians since we've been back. One of my favourite British artists is Robbie Williams; this is his song "Angels", released in 1997 from his debut album Life thru a Lens:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luwAMFcc2f8

I had heard of Williams when I was living in the United States but I had never listened to any of his music (I didn't have any interest, to be honest). Over here, I have heard several of his songs on Heart Cambridge and they're frequently played on Heart Northamptonshire.

"Angels" is also a song from which I can remember most of the lyrics.

A little on April Fools' Day

I'm not exactly one of the biggest fans of April Fools' Day. I think the best April Fools' jokes are the ones that are clever, simple and not disruptive or harmful; I dislike April Fools that hurt people or seriously embarrass them. For example, a couple of days ago I heard about a prank which involved replacing the jam in someone's doughnuts with chili; this bothered me — what if the recipient had choked because they were expecting jam, or worse yet, had an allergic reaction to the chili?

Such an occurrence would change a harmless prank into a dangerous situation; on the other hand, it's also possible that, since everyone has advance warning about jokes on April Fools' Day purely on the basis that it is April Fools' Day, the recipient would expect something in their doughnuts. It's also likely that the joker knew their audience, and this was a fairly mild joke by comparison (no pun intended), but even so, I couldn't help but wonder about people who use April Fools' Day as an excuse to pull nasty pranks.

I'm probably sounding boring and unfunny here! What about you? Do you like practical jokes with a potential to embarrass, do you prefer jokes that involve nothing beyond minimal discomfort/danger to others, or do you like both types provided that you know your audience?

At any rate, mini-rant over, and Happy April Fools' Day!